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Dear Suki
Sent by Anon
Dear Suki
I am a man aged 29 years old and i am heavily into comms, I got married 2
years ago and me and my wife have had no problems so far Until i started
to use my computer more often on BBS`s etc She decided one day to `try`
out bbs`s herself and got addicted like i am. She used to logon when i
am at work and logged on to many BBS`s around the UK. She eventually
logged onto one or two BBS`s that i was logged onto and recongised me my
handle. She eventually got access to restricted areas of these bbs`s and
they had some form of pornography on them. She also noticed that most of
the uploads were done by me!. She then approached me and asked what i
was upto?, i told her the truth that i found the bbs by mistake and
started to donwload the pics and found them fascinating, and really
wanted to try some of the stuff in em and was to scared to ask her in
case she was offended. She agreed to participate in some activites and
we decided for `a laugh` we`d do our own collection. We got our video
camera and filmed ourselves whilst Participating.
I eventually digitized these and put them on the hardrive. I archived
the collection to save space. This is were the trouble started i think
during a batch upload i mistakenly uploaded to archive to at least 8
bbs`s. I didn`t realise it until oneday she downloaded them from another
BBS!!!!. She was *FUMING* and nearly killed me, she slapped me and hit
me and generally i got cursed etc. I tried to tell her it was a simple
mistake but she doesnt listen to me i dont know what to do. I`ve tried
telling a sysop to delete the pics, but they`ve spread too much. No shes
theataning to divorce me, and i love her, i really need help i`ve tried
everything to make it up with her but she refuses, she know living at her
friends house. Please help
Anon
Dear Anon,
Here's a warning to us all - never digitise and install on hardrive any
pictures you don't want to run the risk of falling into the wrong hands!
The best thing you can do now is to keep telling her how sorry you are
and hope that eventually she calms down. The problem is that she feels
that you've abused her trust. Any sort of "erotic photography" between
consenting partners can only be done when there is explicit trust between
the parties involved. You trust your partner not to show pictures of you
in revealing poses to all and sundry. I know what you did was
accidental, but her feelings have been hurt just the same.
Hopefully she will listen to you eventually - maybe one day she'll even
find it funny or flattering that so many people wanted to download her
image! Perhaps you could find an embarrassing, revealing photo of
yourself, have it photocopied, and pin it up all over town, with the word
"Sorry" printed across it. It might help to redress the balance and give
her a good laugh too.
In the meantime, make sure you ask the sysops of any boards where you see
her pictures to delete them, and carry on grovelling!
And in future make sure you keep your erotic works of art where they
belong - in private!
Suki
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